Beauty Tip of the Day

Dan mintalah pertolongan (kepada Allah) dgn jalan sabar dan mengerjakan
sembahyang; dan sesungguhnya sembahyang itu amatlah berat kecuali kepada orang-orang yang khusyuk.

Al-Baqarah 2:45


Kerana perhatian dan kasih sayang.


Dari TV series di USA. Criminal Minds.
"Anything you cannot relinquish when it has outlived its usefulness, possesses you. And in this materialistic age, a great many of us are possessed by our possessions." -Mildred Lisette Norman 
Cerita Criminal Minds ini sah-sahlah tentang siasatan. If siapa yang pernah baca my posts, this is not my first post about Criminal Minds. Ini siri Isnin lepas. TV8. Tiba-tiba di satu tempat ini macam ada kes perempuan hilang. Ada mayat perempuan dijumpai. Di buaian, fun fair. Di make up cantik cantik, dipakaikan pakaian cantik cantik. Persamaan antara semua mangsa is, saiz badan kecil. Those investigaters(betul ke eja) dapat tangkap siapa yang culik-culik those girls tu. Penculik itu adalah a woman. Reason? By the age 10, mother dia meninggal. So dia tak boleh nak accept that fact. And put drugs on her. Sedangkan what happen is that, ayah dia macam sexual abuse dia. So nak sorokkan perbuatan dia, ayah dia macam bagi elektrik shock supaya woman tu tak ingat. Age woman tu late 20 kot. And dia ada collection of dolls. The father gave her dolls to other girls. So she end up kidnapping small sized woman. To replace her dolls. Then put drugs on them. And treat them like dolls. Make up kan cantik cantik. Pakaikan baju cantik cantik. Main tea party. Alah yang the one you will say to one of your dolls tu, ini kawan baru awak. Nama dia Aurora. Contoh.

Real story that happens in USA. (via Oprah)
"In life, unlike chess, the game continues after checkmate." - Isaac Asimov
Tadi siang, sempat tengok Oprah. TV7 sekarang tayangkan Oprah. Tak kiralah bila punya episode kan. So, if ada peluang I'll watch. Sebab basically it's about people sharing their stories. In how they move on with their life after something happened. Ada 3 tetamu. Yang I ingat sangat is this one lady. Now she's married and ada anak. Masa kecil dahulu her parents have problem with their marriage. Then they get divorce. She lives with her mom's parents. Kiranya her grandparents lah kan. Then at age 5 kot, suddenly her mom left her. Sehingga age 20 years old, dia jumpa Daddy dia around twice je. What happen is that, masa umur 20, she met her father. And somehow, his father kissed her at her mouth. Not suppose to happen. For 4 years, she had and affair with her dad. One of the reasons? Because she'd been longing of love from a dad. And, her mom selalu kata she's ugly. But her dad will always say, "You're the prettiest girl in the world." Buat dia rasa appreciated. Any person pun nak diri rasa dihargai dan disayangi. Even you pun kan? I tak berapa sure what makes her stop. Yang I tahu, ada this one time suddenly the Daddy calling her names. Sedangkan the Daddy yang buat dia macam tu. She wrote a book. Entitled "The Kiss: A Memoir". Oh. Her name is Kathryn Harrison. This discussion macam kesan daripada kisah Mackenzie Phillips. Mackenzie wrote a book. High On Arrival. Daughter of one of the members of  The Mamas & The Papas.

My Conclusion.
These stories happens in USA. Maybe di Malaysia it might differ. As ramai dari rakyat Malaysia beragama Islam kan. Maybe. Sebab anything is possible. Because perhatian dan kasih sayang, people would do anything. Walaupun dia tahu it's not a right thing to do. But when it happens, they felt being loved by someone. Those kind of feeling they had been longing for. Macam ada certain people may look strong from the outside, yet it still could happen. Sebab they are still human. And sometimes people will do stupid things just to have what they want. Just to be happy. Kadang kadang it's not love. But it's loneliness. So when ada orang fills it, makes oneself becomes confused. And makes wrong decisions. So if you really loved someone, appreciate them. Love them. Care about them. Because I can bet, you yourself want to be treated the same way, right? Would it be fair if you don't treat them as nice as they treat you?

Neways, as a Muslim, hold on to ALLAH. hold on to Al-Quran. Do your prayers. InsyaALLAH, everything will be okay.

Kalau tak ikhlas, buat apa pun tak jadi. Usaha doa tawakal.



mirage said...

Uwaah, ruginya tak dapat tengok episod tu... Tak tengok lagi... T_T

CaHaya said...

Title dia The Uncanny Valley.
Series 5 episode 12.

nanti cari lah. =)
nisa ckp tntg criminal minds kan? heee

You know what’s beautiful?

Your eyes blinking, your pupils dilating when you’re euphoric, the curve of your smile, the shade of your teeth, the arch of your back, the fingers typing, the breathing thing you do, the thoughts. Your thoughts. How you think is beautiful; how a thought comes to mind is…a miracle, how you operate, how you are; just you. In every sense of the word; all your blood cells, neurons, organs, your limbs, your soul. You are breathtaking, mashaa’Allaah.


You can’t control the things that happen to you but you can control the way you react to them. It’s all perception.
You Again (Movie)